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What I’ve learnt about love from being single for 18 months
This period has taught me more than any previous relationships ever have
1. Sex and romantic feelings are rarely separate
What can start as sex can become love, or easily at least a strong emotional connection. Let’s face it, if you the sex was good enough for it to happen multiple times then there was probably something more you liked about the person simply than the fact that they made you orgasm. The truth is that sex is more than just the physical act- it’s the time spent together afterwards, cuddling or having jumbled up, carefree conversations. These moments usually lead to some kind of romantic feelings, even if you don’t want a relationship.
2. Honestly and respect are two of the most important aspects of any relationship
Whether you’re just looking for a physical connection or searching for something more, the best thing you can do is be honest. Have a verbal conversation about what you are looking for. Be prepared that this may change, and that it is normal for our own and other’s wants and desires to change and evolve with time. You should absolutely respect the person you are dating or sleeping with, and this includes their…
